Fit in and stand out! Some thoughts on identity
I’m going to let you in on a little secret—identity is a paradox (a statement that contradicts itself, yet somehow manages to be true).
Pursuing an image vs. developing an identity
When I think back to myself as a first-year, taking my first steps on campus, I think of her as a completely different girl and yet the exact same one.
it's called a "victory lap"